Your not going to fix your sexual situation by getting married. The devil will always fight you. God made us sexual beings. Stop praying that God will take it away. You need it for when you get married.
Molestation is a very sensitive issue. Some people are promiscuous because she didn't get the attention from her father. Healing can't happen unless you deal with it. We have to go to the Manufacturer to fix and diagnose the problem.
Masturbation is not in the bible. When you can' find it in the bible it falls into the questionable category. Masturbation falls into the category of perversion. There is no proof of harm to the body medically. However it attracts issues to your life that are negative. It ties close to pornography (pornea).
Men are more addicted to pornography then women. 100 Million people were surveyed:
2% watch pornography
3% said it was helpful
86% said it was harmful
87% said it degrades women
89% said it promotes violence.
71% said it degrades sex
75% said it was addictive/addicted to it
82% said it distorts sexuality
71% said it's destructive to life
71% said it was dangerous
Child molesters/rapists 9/10 has dealt with pornography. You have to guard your mind and hearts. Check your house because you don't want to play with pornography.
You may say it's your body, it's safe, no drama, no diseases. It destroys marriages. 3/5 marriages deal with masturbation. It's easy for men to do it when women say no. It causes less attraction. Don't tell your spouse if he is good you will give it to him. He can just do it himself. Emotions aren't attached to sex for men. It's physical for him.
When you masturbate you are saying that you have no self control. Sex was designed for two people, not 1. You are telling God you don't need what He created. Women will say that they don't need a man, and men will say that they don't need women. Women do need the covering of a man. Some women decide to take care of things themselves by using toys.
Everything God made Satan wants to pervert it. It produces a numbness in your spirit and disconnects you from your spouse because you are taking things into your own hands. You get into dangerous mental adultery. Who are you thinking of? Instead of being attracted to your spouse you are drawn to some fantasy world.
Masturbation is dangerous for singles. You get into mental fornication. Who are you thinking about? The bible says that if you even look at a woman you commit adultery. For singles you are committing fornication.
Matt 5:28
28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Three ways to help:
1. Destroy all pornography in your house.
Delete e-mails. It does something to a man when he sees a naked woman.
Get rid of magazines, toys, etc.
1 Cor 5:6
6 Your glorying is not good. Do you not know that a little leaven leavens the whole lump?
Don't go to the strip clubs.
Ladies: give your husband something to look at. You can get money faster from your husband than a
stripper can.Men: emotionally stimulate her so she won't want to touch herself. Don't just use her for
sex. It's just a duty to her when she's just laying there. Tell her she's pretty.
2. Change your habits.
Avoid all things that cause you to be nasty. Avoid that man or woman that you like receiving compliments
from. Avoid the aisle with those magazines. You know what turns you on. Don't answer the phone, don't
text back. If you want God to mingle in your life live right.
3. Starve your fantasy
Don't play that movie in your mind. When you see your thoughts are going to lead to lust, porn ,etc cast
down those vain imaginations.
2 Cor 10:3-5
3 For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh. 4 For the weapons of
our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, 5 casting
down arguments and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing
every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ,
Is masturbation a sin?
Gen 38:1-10
1 It came to pass at that time that Judah departed from his brothers, and visited a certain Adullamite whose name was Hirah. 2 And Judah saw there a daughter of a certain Canaanite whose name was Shua, and he married her and went in to her. 3 So she conceived and bore a son, and he called his name Er. 4 She conceived again and bore a son, and she called his name Onan. 5 And she conceived yet again and bore a son, and called his name Shelah. He was at Chezib when she bore him.
6 Then Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. 7 But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and the LORD killed him. 8 And Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother’s wife and marry her, and raise up an heir to your brother.” 9 But Onan knew that the heir would not be his; and it came to pass, when he went in to his brother’s wife, that he emitted on the ground, lest he should give an heir to his brother. And the thing which he did displeased the LORD; therefore He killed him also.
He wasted his seed. Most theologians believed he masturbated.
Heb 13:4
4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
The following statement isn't in the bible but Pastor Brown's theological construct:
Is masturbation ever okay? God hates when you bring a 3rd party into the bedroom. There is no wrong sex between married persons. When you masturbate within your marriage for example because your husband is away can lead to mental adultery.
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