Relationships

 To the singles:

Proverbs 18:22
²² He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD. 

The scripture says he who finds a wife, not a woman. A woman messes up a man's looking when she looks for love. It is a turn off to a man when women look. God created Adam first. Adam was put to work and then God created Eve. It's a turn on when you are not available and he can not see all of your business. Women shouldn't aspire to look like Nicki Minaj. Men may want to look at you but not take you home.


Hold onto God to bring your spouse. Women, stop letting guys run the same game. Keep yourselves and observe him. What god is he serving? Is he serving God or some other god? If he can't show you his phone leave him alone. If he gets nervous when you give him his phone because it is ringing that's a sign he is hiding something.

If you have had sex before repent and do it no more. Don't pray that God takes away the sexual desires because you need it for when you get married. You are not strange for wanting to be loved.


A woman should carry herself like a wife before she can get married and not carry herself like a girl.
For those who are married:

Women should submit to their husband whether or not he is saved.

Ephesians 5:22
²² Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 

Ephesians 5:24
²⁴ Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 

Col 3:18
²⁴ Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 

1 Peter 3:1
¹ Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives,

The scripture does not say to submit to your saved husband. If your husband is not saved pray that God changes him. Husband and wives should not talk to their spouses in a hurtful way.
 

To the young people:

It is okay to be virgin. If you have had sex you can start over and keep yourself until God brings your spouse. Both young girls and guys have a responsibility to stay pure. Parents should talk to their sons and daughters about sex and waiting until they get married because the youth today know so much.


For everyone:


Men have two people in them: a king or a fool. Which ever you respond to is the one you will get. Women have two people in them: a queen or a fool. Which ever you respond to is the one you will get.  For the married ladies: when you serve your king there is nothing he won't give you.


Proverbs 25:24
  ²⁴ Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.
 
You shouldn't hide things in a relationship.  Whatever the person is hiding will be magnified after marriage.

Blended Families:

It is an honor to be a step-parent. It's a calling to marry a person with a child and to be a parent of that child. The step-parent has the authority until the child is back home with his or her biological parent. Children should respect their step-parent and it they feel they are grown they can pay their own way.  Jesus grew up in a blended family. When Jesus was found in the temple he told Mary and Joseph he was about his Father's business (Luke 2:49).